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The Surprising Benefits of Divorce

A woman physically rejoicing at discovering the benefits of divorce

There ARE benefits of divorce – come learn more about how to experience them.

For most people, thinking about any benefits of divorce might be the farthest thing from their minds. But they DO exist and when you experience them your life can shift.

When my marriage of 16 years ended, I didn’t know what I was going to do. I was devastated. My husband, my lover, my best friend was gone, and I felt as though my world as I’d known it had come to a sudden, heart-breaking end.

No, of course it wasn’t easy. At the time, I thought it was the worst thing that had ever happened to me.  But, through the whole process, my stronger, happier self emerged from the ashes of that love and I came to understand that going through divorce was meant to teach me a lot of incredible things. Can you guess what the most important lesson I learned was?

My divorce was actually a gift.

And, if you have been going through a similar experience, I want you to know that whatever heartbreak YOU have experienced from a breakup or divorce is also a gift for YOU.

I know…I know. It probably doesn’t feel like it right now, especially if it’s recent. I don’t mean to diminish or minimize your pain, your fears, the difficulty, and the overwhelming hurt that you’ve experienced.

And I know that seeing divorce as a gift kind of goes against popular opinion. Looking back now, I can remember when I was first talking to my friends about getting a divorce.  You know the look. Concerned, the first thing most people would say was, “I’m so sorry.”


To be fair, what I really needed to hear was, “Congratulations! The best of life is yet to come.”


(And cake. A big, beautiful divorce cake would have been nice.)


The truth is that when one door closes, another opens. And, one of the greatest GIFTS you can receive from divorce is a chance to CHOOSE True Love…which starts with falling deeply in love with yourself first!

When my marriage started falling apart, my Spiritual Support Team (which I refer to as my Angels, Guides and Higher Self) guided me to do the Tough Mudder. If you haven’t heard, it is an incredibly physically, mentally and emotionally challenging event—a 10-mile course with 20 military-style obstacles, all involving mud!  Crazy! I know. Especially when I hated mud. I wouldn’t even garden because I didn’t like the feeling of dirt on my hands!   But, it is often the things that we dislike the most that we actually need the most! (Even a mouthful of mud???)

My Team encouraged me to go through this experience filled with tough and muddy obstacles to show me the similarities between the challenges in that event and the ones in our lives. And, just like mud, divorce isn’t so bad once you get through it.

They said to me, “Every challenge brings with it a gift. Every. Single. One.”

When you allow your perspective about your situation to shift, it’s easier to look at it as though it is happening for you…not to you.

When you FREE yourself from limitation and emotional attachments you can:

  1. HEAL your heart from past hurts and stop painful patterns once and for all
  2. RECONNECT and FALL in LOVE with your True Self
  3. EMPOWER yourself from within
  4. REINVENT yourself and your life from a place of empowerment and self-love
  5. ALLOW True Love into your life…in all ways, which may very well include a beautiful soulmate who reflects back to you how infinitely loved you really are

Maybe you are thinking, “Well, how does she know?”

Well, with over 20 years of experience as a Life Transformed® Coach, hypnotherapist, Angel Therapy Practitioner®, and life-long student of metaphysics & manifesting, I offer a unique and powerful way for women to achieve their best life and highest potential, including finding True Love.  I also wrote the book on it. Lol.

And, because I’ve been there…I’ve transformed my life in a beautiful way after my divorce, and guide others to self-love using The H.E.A.R.T.S. Way™ to True Love, a powerful and divinely inspired process that guides you to heal your heart, fall in love with yourself, shift subconscious sabotaging patterns, and manifest your heart’s desires by applying universal laws.

I want you to empower yourself from within and experience the deliciousness of True Love in all ways.

I understand where you’re at. I’ve been there.

I understand the pain, the fears, the feelings of loneliness and abandonment. I know what it’s like to wonder how you’re going to make it alone, and worry about ever being happy again. I get it. But, you can find love again.

Imagine…not being triggered by your ex anymore because you are at peace, feeling balanced and excited about your new life!

Imagine…having the time of your life and having so much fun that now you are saying, “Thank you!!!” to your ex for the past experiences and the gifts you have received!

Imagine…feeling so in love with yourself, with your life, and with a beautiful soulmate who is just perfect for you!

This is ALL possible!

You may be thinking, “Okay, so where do I start?” Take the Are You Ready to Attract True Love” Quiz to see where you’re at, and please join me for my free upcoming ‘Sacred Secrets to Attracting True Love’ masterclass.

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You deserve to be happy! You deserve to explore and enjoy the benefits of divorce, as hard won as they may be. And you deserve to experience the gift of Love in the most beautiful ways. I’m here to help you step up and into that reality with ease, peace, confidence, and fun!